For most families, a parent's house is the largest asset in the estate and the most emotionally loaded. A clear plan reduces stress and protects everyone's inheritance.
This page is part of the Probate Real Estate New York guide. Not legal or tax advice — consult an estate attorney or tax professional for your situation.
The Practical Steps
Confirm how title was held, open the estate if needed, obtain Letters, value the home, and choose a selling path. Our step-by-step probate guide walks through each stage.
Clearing Out a Lifetime of Belongings
Cleanout is often the hardest part. Take what matters, arrange an estate sale or donation for the rest, and don't over-invest in repairs — see cleaning out an estate property.
Handling It as a Family
When siblings share the home, agree early on price and process. A neutral, documented valuation keeps decisions objective and prevents disputes.
Major renovations rarely pay off in an estate sale. A clean, well-priced, as-is home usually nets the family more once time and carrying costs are counted.
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Call 646-234-2160Frequently Asked Questions
How do we sell our parents' house after they pass?
Open the estate, get Letters, value the home, and list or sell for cash. See the full process.
Do we owe tax on the sale?
Usually little, thanks to the stepped-up basis. Confirm with a tax advisor.
What if one sibling wants to keep the house?
They can buy out the others at fair value. See inherited property with multiple heirs.